On May 28th and September 24th, 1995 different groups of descendents of William Carl and Mary Heiden met to share their family memories. The conversations were recorded and later written transcripts were made. Below are excerpts which relate to this person or topic..

Pictured is what was called a cassette tape back in pre-digital times.

 

Ralph Heiden - We were talking earlier about the Laas' and Mary Lou has a picture of some of them. Mary and William Heiden, Aunt Libbie Laas, Aunt Emma Laas formerly Ullrich?

Mary Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - Who are they? I don’t understand what relation they are to us.

Norma "Jeanie" Heiden - They’re Pa’s cousins. That’s where Alice (Laas) Berlin (left) comes in.

Wilma (Heiden) Bicking - We always called them “Aunt and Uncle.” Uncle Will.

Laas was from Texas. He was the “rich” one in the family. Who were the Paulsens?

Helma (Heiden) Nickel - They were relations to Aunt Emma.

Laas, I think. They were some of the leaders when it came to starting the annual Heiden reunion.

Mildred (Roggerman) Heiden - Lucille [Lehmkuhl] was a Burmeister wasn’t she?

Helma (Heiden) Nickel - Louie and Aunt Rikie Burmeister, she was a Laas too. Lucille had a sister, Mildred, who died of infantile paralysis. No, Lucille was the one on crutches.

Wilma (Heiden) Bicking - Her sister, Florence Burmeister, was the Paulsen. She married a Paulsen. They used to come out from Toledo and they were the ones who made the lemonade at the reunion.

Actually, the members of the Laas' family were related to August Heiden's wife, Rika as shown on the following chart:
 

Ralph Heiden - One of the things a lot of people have mentioned is Grandma’s cooking.

Helma (Heiden) Nickel - At least three times a week, she would bake bread.

Mary Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - She made the best sugar cookies!

Mildred (Roggerman) Heiden - One time Art went over to their house and he came back and said, “Ma’s making bread today. Don’t you think you should go and help her?”

I knew that he just wanted me to go and learn how to make bread like she did. So, I said, “With all the experience she’s had, I don’t think she needs my help!”

Wilma (Heiden) Bicking - She would make donuts too. The ones I liked best where when she would make those long stick, long-johns and frost them.

Norma "Jeanie" Heiden - A lot of the relatives from Toledo like the Laas’ and Berlin’s would come on Sunday night just in time for dinner.

Mary Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - Always!

Norma "Jeanie" Heiden - They would come about 4 or 5 p.m. Ma would send us down in the basement to get some more jars of preserved beef. Boy, that made the best gravy! Or, she would make some pork sausages and fried potatoes.

Ralph Heiden - You wonder now about how people make such a big deal out of eating a pat of butter or having an occasional egg for breakfast when back then, they ate the fattest meats and sausages.

Norma "Jeanie" Heiden - Ma would save the grease from bacon. Then when you fried potatoes you would use that grease.

Wilma (Heiden) Bicking - Sometimes they would put that old lard directly onto bread and eat it like a sandwich! And we worry about eating a little bit of butter.

Mildred (Roggerman) Heiden - Art always talked about taking lard sandwiches to school.

Wilma (Heiden) Bicking - I can remember coming home from school and taking a piece of fresh bread and putting the bacon grease on it for a snack.

Pa used to eat mettwurst and eggs and spicanse for breakfast.

Mary Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - I can remember him cutting the fat off pork and eating it. It would make us kids almost sick.

Norma "Jeanie" Heiden - On Easter Sunday, he would eat six boiled eggs for breakfast. That was his traditional meal.

Wilma (Heiden) Bicking - During Lent, we could never go to a dance or to the movies back then.

Helma (Heiden) Nickel - You never got married during Lent either. There were a lot of February weddings because you had to get married before or after Lent.

Norma "Jeanie" Heiden - Unless it was a shotgun wedding!

 

Over the years, we have also received written memories and remembrances about this person or topic from various family members.

   
   
   

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Mildred Heiden Ralph Heiden Marie Tommelein  Brick Tommelein 
Wm Frank Heiden Helen Heiden Dianne Houpt Mary Lou Opfermann
Wilma Bicking Pat Klass Helma Nickel Jeanie Heiden
 
  • Wilma, Jeanie, Wm Frank, Helma & Marie were children of Wm Carl and Mary Heiden

  • Mildred was married to Arthur Heiden, son of Wm Carl and Mary and was mother of Ralph Heiden

  • Helen was wife of Wm Frank and they were parents of Dianne

  • Pat was daughter of Wilma Bicking

  • Mary Lou is daughter of Leo and Lucille Heiden

  • Ralph, Dianne, Pat and Mary Lou were first cousins

  1. Wm Carl & Mary Heiden
  2. Wm Carl Heiden
  3. Mary (Rambow) Heiden
  4. Heinrich & Emma (Stock) Heiden
  5. Herman & Reka Heiden (Article)
  1. Herman & Reka Heiden (Drake)
  2. Heinrich & Wilhelmina Rambow
  3. Walter Berns Poem
  4. Family Fun Times

  1. Alice Berlin
  2. Edna Berns
  3. Lavern Berns
  4. Walter Berns
  5. Wilma Bicking
  6. Myrna Bishop
  7. Caroline Brown
  8. Bertha Burgard
  9. Donna Burge
  10. Rika Burmeister
  11. Janice Clark
  12. Bertha Drake
  13. Mildred Eipperle
  14. Hilda Fuller
  15. Walter Grams
  16. Sally Guy
  17. Arthur Heiden
  18. August & Rika Heiden
  19. August Heiden Children
  20. Carl Heiden
  21. Ernst Heiden
  22. Harold Heiden
  23. Heinrich Heiden
  24. Heinrich Heiden Children
  25. Helen E. Heiden
  26. Henry Wm Heiden
  27. Herman Heiden
  28. Herman & Reka Heiden
  29. John Heiden
  30. Leo Heiden
  31. Lester Heiden
  32. Maria Heiden
  33. Mary Heiden
  34. Meta Heiden
  1. Norma "Jeanie" Heiden
  2. Robert Heiden
  3. Roger Heiden, Sr.
  4. Velda Heiden
  5. Wm Carl & Mary Heiden
  6. Wm Frank Heiden
  7. William Leo Heiden
  8. Dianne Houpt
  9. Kanseyer Family
  10. Lena Koster
  11. Marvin Koster
  12. Laas Family
  13. Libbie Laas
  14. William Laas
  15. Lucille Lehmkuhl
  16. Milhan Family
  17. Frederick Milhan
  18. Henry Milhan
  19. Linda Miller
  20. Möller Family
  21. Helma Nickel
  22. Mary Lou Opfermann
  23. Rambow Family
  24. The Rambows by Drake
  25. Fred Rambow
  26. Henry Rambow III
  27. Minnie Rambow
  28. Wilhelmina Rambow
  29. Fredareka Schmidt
  30. Pastor Don Thomas
  31. Carol Toburen
  32. Dennis Tommelein
  33. Marie Tommelein

  1. Bridge School
  2. Christmas Eve Party
  3. Dentist Visit
  4. Dixon Rd Lots
  5. The Great Depression
  6. Education
  7. Emigration
  8. Five Generations
  9. German Book
  10. Germany
  11. Grape Community
  12. Wm Heiden Home Farm
  13. Indian Burial Ground
  14. Letters from Germany
  15. Life on the Farm
  1. Lutheran Church
  2. Mecklenburg, Germany
  3. Middle Names
  4. Nephews
  5. Helma Nickel's Cooking
  6. Old Receipts
  7. Reunions
  8. Sparrow Hunting
  9. Stormy Weather
  10. Wedding Shiveree
  11. Willows by the River
  12. The Woodlot
  13. Work on the Farm
  14. Wakefield Gifts