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Over the years, we have also received written memories and remembrances about this person or topic from various family members.

Fun Times
Verdell (Heiden) Geibel - I remember playing a game called Eanie Inie Over at the shed behind Grandma and Grandpa's house. You would choose sides and half would go to one side of the building and the other half on the other side. The object was to throw the ball over the roof and the one who caught it would try to get to the other side without being caught.

When we were young, my Dad (Carl Heiden) would never allow us to go ice skating on the river until Grandpa went down and checked the thickness of the ice. When he said o.k., everyone would head for the ice.

I don't want to forget the birthdays, Grandma's was January 13th and Grandpa's was April 1 (April Fool's Day). All of the family would gather in the evening with a gift and also bring along something for sandwiches, chips, cakes, etc. for a little party.

In warm weather when we would gather, we would always have a ball game. We had plenty of room because playing out by the barn we didn't have to worry about hitting any windows.

I can always remember their big garden and how they canned fruits and vegetables for the winter months instead of freezing things.

Velda Heiden - When we were young, we lived with Grandpa and Grandma and Grandpa would play ball with us kids. We would play in the outfield and he would bat the ball to us after asking if we wanted a fly ball or a grounder. He would hit whatever we wanted. Sometimes he would hit the ball over the old barn that has since blown down. We would have to go to the other side and chase the cows out of the barnyard in order to get the ball back.

Wintertime, we would skate on a pond in the flats by the river. We were not allowed to go onto the river until Grandpa or my dad or Uncle William took an axe and chopped a hole in the ice to make sure it was thick enough.

Mary Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - One day Jeanie and I got a little too much and my mother, Lucille, was very upset with Grandpa for not watching us closer. We just kept taking a little nip out of everyone's glass now and then.

Arlene (Fuller) Johnson - In the winter, I would go skating on the River Raisin with Jeanie once Grandpa determined that the ice was thick enough.In the winter, I would go skating on the River Raisin with Jeanie once Grandpa determined that the ice was thick enough.

Dennis Tommelein - I remember going to Grandpa and Grandma Heiden's house on Saturday night or Sunday and always finding the men playing cards in the dining room while the women gathered in the living room for plenty of conversation. The kids seemed to roam from room to room and occasionally would end up next door (the west side of the house) at Uncle William and Aunt Helen's.

Picture: Card game with Bill Bicking, Art Heiden, Mary (Rambow) Heiden, Carl Heiden and Wm Carl Heiden.

Janice (Heiden) Clark - Some other good memories associated with them include getting and drinking Grandpa's homemade cider from the cellar, mettwurst sausage (not sure of the spelling) from the smokehouse out in the backyard, cherry soup and home made mincemeat. We had some good eating!

Picture: Smoke house in the backyard at 8861 Dixon Road.

Sally (Eipperle) Guy - Then there was the time that Carol and I wanted something to drink beside “ole water.” Grandpa had taught me how to siphon wine from the barrel so I had to show off for Carol and get us a little wine to drink. Well, I’m afraid I didn’t have siphoning down pat and I swallowed a bunch of wine. Soon, my belly was hurting again and I was sick as a dog or, should say that I was drunk as a skunk.

Grandpa came into my room and said, “What’s the matter with her? She was fine a couple of hours ago.”

Grandma just said, “Well, you ought to know! Next thing you know, she’ll be smoking your pipe. Probably already taught her how to do that too!”

Patricia (Bicking, Funkey) Klass - I guess some of my fondest memories were that me, my sister (Sharon) and brother (John) being city kids got to visit a real, live farm with animals, crops and everything. It was always quite an adventure for us. It was also fun to play with all the cousins living on Dixon Road. We played hide’n seek, jumped in the hayloft and built forts in the hay bales. I remember riding with Cousin Dick on his pony, Trigger, and playing with the many kittens that appeared at one time or another. We helped Aunt Helen gather the eggs even though it involved throwing corn cobs at them to get them off the nest. I was terrified of them.

It was also fun to go over to Jesse Barnes’ house to play with his kids and look at the horses. I was totally fascinated by them and always dreamed of having a horse of my own. The family reunions, Christmas parties, corn roasts, graduations and weddings were always the best.

Fishing
Mary Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - Grandpa liked to fish on the River Raisin which was on the north side of the road across from the farm house. We kids would often go with him but he was very emphatic about our being quiet or the fish wouldn't bite. Back then, the river was not polluted and the fish were good. Today, I'm not so sure about the quality of the fish you would catch.

Robert Heiden - When I was 9 years old, I had never caught a fish. Grandpa told me to come over the next day and he would take me fishing. That day he caught a large carp and put it on a stringer back into the river.

The next day, we went fishing again. Grandpa told me to go fetch something from the house so I was gone for about 15 minutes. On my way back, he yelled to tell me that I had a fish on my line. I was so very happy to have caught such a big fish on only my second day at it.

Years later after I was a married man, Grandpa told me how he had hooked his fish from the previous day to my pole. From then on, he and I would always be partners when it came to playing euchre.

Carol (Heiden) Toburen - When I was small, I used to go down to the river with Grandpa and watch him fish. He would sit in his old wooden rocking chair with his cane pole in one hand and his pipe in the other. The can of worms and dirt would always be by his side.

Dianne (Heiden) Houpt - I remember sitting with Grandpa while he fished with his cane pole sitting in his chair with his pipe firmly entrenched in his mouth. I remember the once a week trips when Bill Cominess came across the river to play cribbage with Grandpa.

 

Harold Heiden - He also always seemed to have a fishing line in the River Raisin baited with kernels of sweet corn or worms. He would actually catch a fish now and then. Those were some great times!

Cards
Wilma (Heiden) Bicking - Ma and Pa both loved to play cards. When Aunt Emma and Uncle Fred Rambow would come they would play cards and talk and laugh a lot. Sometimes when they didn't want us kids to hear, they would talk in German and that's when they laughed the loudest.

Linda (Berns) Miller - My dad and Grandpa would also play cribbage a lot and that's how I learned. I recall how happy they always looked when we came to visit...Visiting their home on a regular weekly basis was so much fun. I enjoyed sitting at the dining room table watching a serious game of euchre and sipping a little beer now and then.  

Verdell (Heiden) Geibel - After Grandma passed away, it almost became a ritual that my sister Velda, Maryann (a fried of ours) and I would go and play euchre with Grandpa, Helen and Jeanie. They always put on a nice lunch and the grand finale was watching Gunsmoke on TV. That was one of Grandpa's favorite programs.

I always remember how Grandpa enjoyed his sun room and front porch in the summer. He always looked so contented sitting there smoking his corncob pipe.

Mary Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - Grandpa loved company and loved to play cards. Many afternoons after he was older he would sit in the sun parlor smoking his corn cob pipe watching down the road to the east for someone to show up to play cards. Often William Cominess who lived across the River Raisin and his son, Charlie who lived in a trailer across the road from Grandpa's would come over to play cribbage. When there was a good card game going, there was always a pitcher of homemade wine  on the table. There were always a couple of barrels in the basement. The smell of the wine room still remains with me today.

It seemed they never lacked for company to play cards. Grandpa could tell who was coming by the looking down to the corner with Ida Maybee Road and recognizing the car. He would say, "Here come Lesters, Arts or whomever" and get up to prepare the table for a game of cards.

Marilyn (Fuller) Glubke - Grandpa loved to play cards and I remember him telling me that I was the only person he knew who did not know how to play euchre.

William "Bill" Tommelein - When the men would play cards and I was a young boy, Grandpa would let me fill his pipe and then reward me with a sip of his beer. Bill

Dennis Tommelein - I remember going to Grandpa and Grandma Heiden's house on Saturday night or Sunday and always finding the men playing cards in the dining room while the women gathered in the living room for plenty of conversation. The kids seemed to roam from room to room and occasionally would end up next door (the west side of the house) at Uncle William and Aunt Helen's.

Janice (Heiden) Clark - Probably 90% of the time, the visits involved several games of euchre around their dining room table. When I think about Grandpa, I can still see him at the table with his friend, Bill Cominess from across the River Raisin, playing cribbage (with matchsticks for pegs) saying "15-2, 15-4" etc. as they kept score.

Richard Carl Heiden - When we would play euchre, he would always seem to be leading and he would then tap me on the arm and say, "Richard, aren't you guys playing?"

Cheryl (Heiden) Stevens - I remember Grandpa best of all on Saturday nights hanging out next to him while he played euchre with Jeanie, Helen, Velda, Verdell and their friend, Maryann. That's how I learned to play the game. When Grandpa's luck was bad, he would shuffle the cards and cut them himself by giving them the "ole strassburg poke". I don't know where that expression came from but I've never forgot it and I use it myself sometimes!

 

Patricia (Bicking, Funkey) Klass - Also, his card playing skills were always amazing to me. How he could remember what cards had been played and what was out there just totally befuddled me. I always enjoyed watching the menfolk play cards around the dining room table. Grandpa would tell one of them to play his ace of spades or whatever and watch the astonished look on their face when they realized that he knew what card they were holding. I also remember many echoes of “15-2, 15-4" coming from the cribbage games.

Accordion
Wilma (Heiden) Bicking - We loved to hear Pa play the accordion. We kept requesting different songs so he wouldn't stop. Some of the favorites were Red Wing, Over the Waves, Soldier's Farewell and some other German tunes. I think it was Ach, du lieber Augustin.

Mary Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - Grandpa also played a small accordion and one of his favorite tunes was Red River Valley. (Note: Art Heiden also played the accordion for fun.)

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Mildred Heiden Ralph Heiden Marie Tommelein  Brick Tommelein 
Wm Frank Heiden Helen Heiden Dianne Houpt Mary Lou Opfermann
Wilma Bicking Pat Klass Helma Nickel Jeanie Heiden
 
  • Wilma, Jeanie, Wm Frank, Helma & Marie were children of Wm Carl and Mary Heiden

  • Mildred was married to Arthur Heiden, son of Wm Carl and Mary and was mother of Ralph Heiden

  • Helen was wife of Wm Frank and they were parents of Dianne

  • Pat was daughter of Wilma Bicking

  • Mary Lou is daughter of Leo and Lucille Heiden

  • Ralph, Dianne, Pat and Mary Lou were first cousins

  1. Wm Carl & Mary Heiden
  2. Wm Carl Heiden
  3. Mary (Rambow) Heiden
  4. Heinrich & Emma (Stock) Heiden
  5. Herman & Reka Heiden (Article)
  1. Herman & Reka Heiden (Drake)
  2. Heinrich & Wilhelmina Rambow
  3. Walter Berns Poem
  4. Family Fun Times

  1. Alice Berlin
  2. Edna Berns
  3. Lavern Berns
  4. Walter Berns
  5. Wilma Bicking
  6. Myrna Bishop
  7. Caroline Brown
  8. Bertha Burgard
  9. Donna Burge
  10. Rika Burmeister
  11. Janice Clark
  12. Bertha Drake
  13. Mildred Eipperle
  14. Hilda Fuller
  15. Walter Grams
  16. Sally Guy
  17. Arthur Heiden
  18. August & Rika Heiden
  19. August Heiden Children
  20. Carl Heiden
  21. Ernst Heiden
  22. Harold Heiden
  23. Heinrich Heiden
  24. Heinrich Heiden Children
  25. Helen E. Heiden
  26. Henry Wm Heiden
  27. Herman Heiden
  28. Herman & Reka Heiden
  29. John Heiden
  30. Leo Heiden
  31. Lester Heiden
  32. Maria Heiden
  33. Mary Heiden
  34. Meta Heiden
  1. Norma "Jeanie" Heiden
  2. Robert Heiden
  3. Roger Heiden, Sr.
  4. Velda Heiden
  5. Wm Carl & Mary Heiden
  6. Wm Frank Heiden
  7. William Leo Heiden
  8. Dianne Houpt
  9. Kanseyer Family
  10. Lena Koster
  11. Marvin Koster
  12. Laas Family
  13. Libbie Laas
  14. William Laas
  15. Lucille Lehmkuhl
  16. Milhan Family
  17. Frederick Milhan
  18. Henry Milhan
  19. Linda Miller
  20. Möller Family
  21. Helma Nickel
  22. Mary Lou Opfermann
  23. Rambow Family
  24. The Rambows by Drake
  25. Fred Rambow
  26. Henry Rambow III
  27. Minnie Rambow
  28. Wilhelmina Rambow
  29. Fredareka Schmidt
  30. Pastor Don Thomas
  31. Carol Toburen
  32. Dennis Tommelein
  33. Marie Tommelein

  1. Bridge School
  2. Christmas Eve Party
  3. Dentist Visit
  4. Dixon Rd Lots
  5. The Great Depression
  6. Education
  7. Emigration
  8. Five Generations
  9. German Book
  10. Germany
  11. Grape Community
  12. Wm Heiden Home Farm
  13. Indian Burial Ground
  14. Letters from Germany
  15. Life on the Farm
  1. Lutheran Church
  2. Mecklenburg, Germany
  3. Middle Names
  4. Nephews
  5. Helma Nickel's Cooking
  6. Old Receipts
  7. Reunions
  8. Sparrow Hunting
  9. Stormy Weather
  10. Wedding Shiveree
  11. Willows by the River
  12. The Woodlot
  13. Work on the Farm
  14. Wakefield Gifts