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Over
the years, we have also received written memories and
remembrances about this person or topic from various family
members. |
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Fun Times |
Verdell
(Heiden) Geibel - I
remember playing a game called Eanie Inie Over at the shed
behind Grandma and Grandpa's house. You would choose sides and
half would go to one side of the building and the other half on
the other side. The object was to throw the ball over the roof
and the one who caught it would try to get to the other side
without being caught.
When
we were young, my Dad (Carl Heiden) would never allow us to go ice
skating on the river until Grandpa went down and checked the
thickness of the ice. When he said o.k., everyone would head for
the ice.
I don't want to forget the
birthdays, Grandma's was January 13th and Grandpa's was April 1
(April Fool's Day). All of the family would gather in the
evening with a gift and also bring along something for
sandwiches, chips, cakes, etc. for a little party.
In warm weather when we would
gather, we would always have a ball game. We had plenty of room
because playing out by the barn we didn't have to worry about
hitting any windows.
I can always remember their big
garden and how they canned fruits and vegetables for the winter
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Velda
Heiden - When we were young, we lived with Grandpa and Grandma and Grandpa
would play ball with us kids. We would play in the outfield and he
would bat the ball to us after asking if we wanted a fly ball or a
grounder. He would hit whatever we wanted. Sometimes he would hit
the ball over the old barn that has since blown down. We would have
to go to the other side and chase the cows out of the barnyard in
order to get the ball back.
Wintertime, we would skate on a pond in the flats by the river. We
were not allowed to go onto the river until Grandpa or my dad or
Uncle William took an axe and chopped a hole in the ice to make sure
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Mary
Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - One
day Jeanie and I got a little too much and my mother, Lucille,
was very upset with Grandpa for not watching us closer. We just
kept taking a little nip out of everyone's glass now and then.
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Arlene (Fuller)
Johnson - In the winter, I would go skating
on the River Raisin with Jeanie once Grandpa determined that the
ice was thick enough.In the winter, I would go skating on the
River Raisin with Jeanie once Grandpa determined that the ice
was thick enough. |
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 Dennis
Tommelein - I
remember going to Grandpa and Grandma Heiden's house on Saturday
night or Sunday and always finding the men playing cards in the
dining room while the women gathered in the living room for
plenty of conversation. The kids seemed to roam from room to
room and occasionally would end up next door (the west side of
the house) at Uncle William and Aunt Helen's.
Picture: Card game with Bill Bicking, Art Heiden, Mary (Rambow) Heiden,
Carl Heiden and
Wm Carl Heiden. |
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 Janice
(Heiden) Clark - Some other good memories
associated with them include getting and drinking Grandpa's
homemade cider from the cellar, mettwurst sausage (not sure of the
spelling) from the smokehouse out in the backyard, cherry soup
and home made mincemeat. We had some good eating!
Picture: Smoke house in the backyard at 8861 Dixon Road. |
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 Sally
(Eipperle) Guy - Then there was the time that Carol and I wanted something to drink
beside “ole water.” Grandpa had taught me how to siphon wine from
the barrel so I had to show off for Carol and get us a little wine
to drink. Well, I’m afraid I didn’t have siphoning down pat and I
swallowed a bunch of wine. Soon, my belly was hurting again and I
was sick as a dog or, should say that I was drunk as a skunk.
Grandpa came into my room and said, “What’s the matter with her? She
was fine a couple of hours ago.”
Grandma just said, “Well, you ought to know! Next thing you
know, she’ll be smoking your pipe. Probably already taught her
how to do that too!” |
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Patricia
(Bicking, Funkey) Klass - I guess some of my fondest memories were that me, my sister
(Sharon) and
brother (John) being city kids got to visit a real, live farm with animals,
crops and everything. It was always quite an adventure for us. It
was also fun to play with all the cousins living on Dixon Road. We
played hide’n seek, jumped in the hayloft and built forts in the hay
bales. I remember riding with Cousin Dick on his pony, Trigger, and
playing with the many kittens that appeared at one time or another.
We helped Aunt Helen gather the eggs even though it involved
throwing corn cobs at them to get them off the nest. I was terrified
of them.
It was also fun to go over to Jesse Barnes’ house to
play with his kids and look at the horses. I was totally
fascinated by them and always dreamed of having a horse of my
own. The family reunions, Christmas parties, corn roasts,
graduations and weddings were always the best. |
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Fishing |
Mary
Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - Grandpa liked to fish on the River
Raisin which was on the north side of the road across from the
farm house. We kids would often go with him but he was very
emphatic about our being quiet or the fish wouldn't bite. Back
then, the river was not polluted and the fish were good. Today,
I'm not so sure about the quality of the fish you would catch.
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Robert
Heiden - When
I was 9 years old, I had never caught a fish. Grandpa told me to
come over the next day and he would take me fishing. That day he
caught a large carp and put it on a stringer back into the
river.
The
next day, we went fishing again. Grandpa told me to go fetch
something from the house so I was gone for about 15 minutes. On
my way back, he yelled to tell me that I had a fish on my line. I was
so very happy to have caught such a big fish on only my second
day at it.
Years later after I was a married
man, Grandpa told me how he had hooked his fish from the
previous day to my pole. From then on, he and I would always be
partners when it came to playing euchre. |
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Carol
(Heiden) Toburen - When
I was small, I used to go down to the river with Grandpa and
watch him fish. He would sit in his old wooden rocking chair
with his cane pole in one hand and his pipe in the other. The
can of worms and dirt would always be by his side. |
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Dianne (Heiden) Houpt - I remember sitting with Grandpa
while he fished with his cane pole sitting in his chair with his
pipe firmly entrenched in his mouth. I remember the once a week
trips when Bill Cominess came across the river to play cribbage
with Grandpa.
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Harold
Heiden - He also always seemed to have a fishing line in the
River Raisin baited with kernels of sweet corn or worms. He
would actually catch a fish now and then. Those were some great
times! |
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Cards |
Wilma
(Heiden) Bicking - Ma
and Pa both loved to play cards. When Aunt Emma and Uncle
Fred Rambow
would come they would play cards and talk and laugh a lot.
Sometimes when they didn't want us kids to hear, they would talk
in German and that's when they laughed the loudest. |
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Linda
(Berns) Miller - My dad and Grandpa would also play cribbage a
lot and that's how I learned. I recall how happy they always
looked when we came to visit...Visiting their home on a regular
weekly basis was so much fun. I enjoyed sitting at the dining
room table watching a serious game of euchre and sipping a
little beer now and then. |
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Verdell
(Heiden) Geibel - After Grandma passed away, it
almost became a ritual that my sister Velda, Maryann (a fried of
ours) and I would go and play euchre with Grandpa, Helen and
Jeanie. They always put on a nice lunch and the grand finale was
watching Gunsmoke on TV. That was one of Grandpa's favorite
programs.
I always remember how Grandpa
enjoyed his sun room and front porch in the summer. He always
looked so contented sitting there smoking his corncob pipe.
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Mary
Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - Grandpa
loved company and loved to play cards. Many afternoons after he
was older he would sit in the sun parlor smoking his corn cob
pipe watching down the road to the east for someone to show up
to play cards. Often William Cominess who lived across the River
Raisin and his son, Charlie who lived in a trailer across the
road from Grandpa's would come over to play cribbage. When there
was a good card game going, there was always a pitcher of
homemade wine on the table. There were always a couple of
barrels in the basement. The smell of the wine room still
remains with me today. It seemed they never lacked for
company to play cards. Grandpa could tell who was coming by the
looking down to the corner with Ida Maybee Road and recognizing
the car. He would say, "Here come Lesters, Arts or whomever" and
get up to prepare the table for a game of cards. |
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Marilyn
(Fuller) Glubke - Grandpa loved to play cards and I remember him
telling me that I was the only person he knew who did not know
how to play euchre. |
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 William
"Bill" Tommelein - When
the men would play cards and I was a young boy, Grandpa would
let me fill his pipe and then reward me with a sip of his beer.
Bill |
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Dennis
Tommelein - I
remember going to Grandpa and Grandma Heiden's house on Saturday
night or Sunday and always finding the men playing cards in the
dining room while the women gathered in the living room for
plenty of conversation. The kids seemed to roam from room to
room and occasionally would end up next door (the west side of
the house) at Uncle William and Aunt Helen's. |
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Janice
(Heiden) Clark - Probably 90% of the time, the
visits involved several games of euchre around their dining room
table. When I think about Grandpa, I can still see him at the
table with his friend, Bill Cominess from across the River
Raisin, playing cribbage (with matchsticks for pegs) saying
"15-2, 15-4" etc. as they kept score. |
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Richard
Carl Heiden - When we would play euchre, he would always seem to
be leading and he would then tap me on the arm and say,
"Richard, aren't you guys playing?" |
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Cheryl
(Heiden) Stevens - I remember Grandpa best of all on
Saturday nights hanging out next to him while he played euchre
with Jeanie, Helen, Velda, Verdell and their friend, Maryann. That's how I
learned to play the game. When Grandpa's luck was bad, he would
shuffle the cards and cut them himself by giving them the "ole strassburg poke". I don't know where that expression came from
but I've never forgot it and I use it myself sometimes!
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Patricia
(Bicking, Funkey) Klass - Also, his card playing skills were
always amazing to me. How he could remember what cards had been
played and what was out there just totally befuddled me. I always
enjoyed watching the menfolk play cards around the dining room
table. Grandpa would tell one of them to play his ace of spades
or whatever and watch the astonished look on their face when
they realized that he knew what card they were holding. I also
remember many echoes of “15-2, 15-4" coming from the cribbage
games. |
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Accordion |
 Wilma
(Heiden) Bicking - We loved to hear Pa play the
accordion. We kept requesting different songs so he wouldn't
stop. Some of the favorites were Red Wing, Over the Waves,
Soldier's Farewell and some other German tunes. I think it was
Ach, du lieber Augustin. |
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 Mary
Lou (Heiden) Opfermann - Grandpa also played a small
accordion and one of his favorite tunes was Red River Valley.
(Note: Art Heiden also played the accordion for fun.)
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